I grew up as a middle-row every Sunday kind of Christian. Like most church kids, I knew the classic Christmas story forward and back. The virgin birth. Son of God. Wisemen. Shepards Manger. And most importantly, it's NOT ABOUT THE GIFTS. When I became a mom myself, and I started teaching my kids about Christmas, without even really thinking about it, I continued the mantra that Christmas was not about the presents. But this year as I watched the news turn from political turmoil and celebrity feuds to stories of Christmas Magic, I realized, it is absolutely about the gifts. And I believe that's the way Jesus wants it. Sure there's the classic gifts like presents and money --and those can go a long way in bringing Christmas joy -- but there are the far more important gifts that are given this time of year. There's the gifts of time spent with those who might otherwise be lonely. The gift of volunteering for those who need a hand. The random acts of kindness ...